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Dear cj1969, It will be great if you can e-mail NOKIA about this problem. I think it is possible for them to add that option in thier next software update.
Read gordonshowers' above about the "Messaging" app setting for multimedia messages. Set it once, and it will impact all messages you create and send after that.