NO and YES, NO because you can't set it not to play in settings. YES, When it starts to play just press any key and it would be skipped.
And you can turn off startup tone, by going Profiles>options>personalize>warning tones >turn it off.
Previous Phones: 6600, 7610, 6230, 6230i, 1100, 1112, N70, N73, N95, N95 8GB, 5800XM, 5230, C5, iPhone 3GS, SE Xperia X10, N900, N8, SE Xperia Arc
Current Phones: Nokia N9, iPhone 4